Fan Mail

I got fan mail today.

OK, now I hope I don’t sound like I’m tooting my own horn or anything, but I actually get fan mail a lot. (Well, it seems like a lot to me. To some writers, I’m sure it seems like a paucity, but hey — for me it’s a lot!) I almost wrote that today’s fan mail was special, but that sounds like I’m denigrating the rest of my fan mail. Every piece of fan mail is a big deal. For those of you out there who are readers, trust me — you have absolutely no idea how much it can make a writer’s day to get a letter or even just a brief note from a fan. We work in isolation, with only our keyboards, our Internet connections, and our pets to keep us company. We thrive on contact from the outside world.

(Um, said thriving, by the way, does not in any way, shape, or form justify the woman who — a few months ago — called me from out of the blue and said, “I’m in your neighborhood today and was wondering if I could stop by to have you sign my book.” Er, how did you get my phone number? And my address? And, oh, right — NO!)*

Where was I? Oh, yeah — contact with the outside world. We love it. Live for it. Keep that fan mail coming.

Today’s fan mail was… Oh, hell, I’ll say it — it was special. Special in a different way from the rest of the fan mail, which is special in and of itself.

See, today’s mail came…in the mail.

As in, via U.S. Postal Service.

As in, actual physical paper with actual physical ink that produced actual physical handwritten words.

This wonderful, wonderful fourteen-year-old girl from New York was so taken with my book that she actually wrote to me. With a pen held in her own hands.

She didn’t pound on a keyboard. Or text me from a phone.

She sat down with that three-hole-punch notebook paper we all remember from school. She filled three sides of it. She folded it up and put it in an envelope and stuck a stamp on there and sent it to my publisher, who dutifully forwarded it to me.

Like I said, I’ve gotten a decent amount of fan mail since The Astonishing Adventures of Fanboy and Goth Girlcame out. And I’ve been thrilled by each and every contact with readers.

But this was just cool. In this Internet-connected world, the time and effort it takes to handwrite a letter and mail it seems almost…superhuman. When was the last time you actually handwrote a letter to someone you didn’t know? Hell, when was the last time you handwrote a letter to someone you do know?

I was really touched by the letter. I’m touched by every instance of contact with my fans.

But this one… Yeah, this one was a little extra-special.

*(Oh, and about that woman who called my house a few months ago? Never fear, dear readers — I arranged to meet her in a public place. She was a perfectly lovely woman who had no idea how much she freaked me out. I happily signed her book.)


  1. Joel Willis says:

    Hello! I just read one of your books for the first time, The Astonishing Adventures of Fanboy and Gothgirl! There is no limit to how amazed I am every time I read a brand new book, and when I read yours it just through me over the top! I absolutely loved Fanboy and Gothgirl and I can tell you have your own unique writing style. I am also into writing and I have been having horrible writer’s block while working on my screenplay for my film class. Every time I got stuck, I would pick up your book and it would just take me away. It calmed me down and made me think. Most of all it gave me ideas! I absolutely love the message in this book. The whole time I was reading it I was trying to figure out what the message was gonna be, and it was nothing that I expected. I LOVED that. You kept me guessing. I could go on for hours telling you everything I loved about your book, but I won’t. Haha! All I can say is thank you for helping me move forward with my script my helping me get past my writers block! I will DEFINITELY be checking out more Barry Lyga books.

  2. Madison Hewitt says:

    Hi Barry, my name is madison and I am probebly you’re biggest fan. Although I just turned 12 I love your book I Hunt Killers and also Game. They are probebly two of my favorite books ever. You’re books have really inspired me to write, not as gruesome as yours but still inspirational. Can’t wait to see you’re next book!

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